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    AFF is a marketing machine these days. Their banners are literally everywhere. It's getting to be a bit much, actually. AFF claims to be "The world's largest sex and swinger personals website," with over 9 million active members. There were 58,000 online when we visited. AFF serves people looking for "sexual encounters" encompassing everything from vanilla to fetish, with searches that take varied proclivities into account. This is the place for married people to meet each other for "friendships with benefits," where recently divorced mid-lifers search for the wildness they feel with great resentment that they missed, and where young people wanting to experiment find willing instructors. You can be as explicit as you want in your ad. Just post your sexy pics (a must on a personals site if you really want to meet people), leave a voice greeting and fill out their extensive profile template (allow at least half an hour to get all this set up). Since Sir Rodney is in a long-term relationship we relied on a single (female) friend to find out how effective AFF is at getting users hooked up off line (the only real measure of success for a personals site). She got a "gazillion" responses to her ad, mostly from attached men seeking causual, no-strings sex. We invite users of AFF to share their experiences, so we can better inform our readers.

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    • Submitted by
      Mr. Joe
      2011-03-12 02:50:52
      I was on AFF for about 3 months. Most of the women that are real are either fat or gross. In reality you could pick them up at any local crappy bar. The "hot" chicks that constantly replied to my post were all fake. You get to where you can tell who the real people are and who the fake ones are after a while. I basically wasted my time and money on the site and found that I could get just as lucky off of something free like craigslist.
    • Submitted by
      akil1480
      2010-06-13 00:59:33
      I've had a successful hookup and have another that is going to happen, I do think or even know that a lot of the responses I get and get around to giving them my email end up being people promoting something. And I emailed 2 different people one time and got exactly the same response. That just tells me that some of the messages are not real.
    • Submitted by
      Imbued1
      2010-03-04 23:28:12
      I've read almost every submission on this site regarding AFF, I hope my write up is more informative and balanced than most of these other critiques. My own experience with AFF has been serendipitously successful. This was my first foray into any sort of personal interaction online - so I had no prior experience but - from just being a living, THINKING, adult human being, one would realize this site functions the same way real life works.The site is set up to make money -nobody cares If you get laid or not! I'll tell you about my own experience but first lets banish a few falsehoods and erroneous assumptions/expectations. If you approach any site thinking you'll hook up with some lonely, young, perfect looking, pornstar-want-to-be, sex fiend - you're a bigger idiot than you might have imagined -it aint gonna happen. I don't care if you post 50+ cock pictures on your profile, you'll frustrate yourself into blue balls! The girls pictured in all the "site media" are lures and ultimately phantoms - they exist only in ether, forget about them.. Any effort to contact hot, single, "too professionally photographed" models - will only land you in scam heaven (or hell). Another thing realize that we all have a budget - don't believe the hype and comeons - that purchasing anything like "web cam (scam?) access", ablility for standard members to contact you, voice introductions..etc. will help you score.. they will never increase your chances. If you're an unattractive person or you look like Charlie Manson - you're chances are ZERO!! Its just the truth - they say "there's an ass for every seat" but NOT in world of online sex - SORRY the rules mirror REAL LIFE!! Another important truth - YOU are NOT Unique, NOR are you special in ANY WAY (maybe to your Mom) but not to anybody online - so don't take rejection personally. My goal in joining the site was to have sex.. and I mean SEX, with real people - I was NOT looking for a marriage partner, some chick to spoon with, cry to, complain about, or start or meet a family with - I just wanted like minded people to BANG! I decided the best way to increase my chances meeting real people would be to get the gold membership - it is fairly priced - I paid about 50 bucks for 3 months; The reason I did'nt go the Standard (for free), or the Silver (for a charge) is that -I figured for a 3 months experiment I would sort of break even if I got at least three to six real prospects with set future appointments and at least two actual encounters. Some reading this will think my expectations are too low but remember - I'm a single male - the're about 50,000 of them on the site at any one time. I also did not purchase ANY other services or upgrades. I took the time to build a profile, including four photos, one face (this is a main profile shot), one full length, and two other face/torso pics - all clothed no NUDE shots and No cock photos - you'll notice if you're familiar with the site - a million guys only have cock shots - if they were looking for men they'd be very successful -but women don't care to just see your 10 cock pics - then read a profile that says - I wanna FUCK!! - Women are a little more cerebral, emotional, its no wonder people aren't getting anywhere.. Another caveat - I live in rural western PA - my search area only extended to 75 miles of my home... but here goes - So I placed my ad - I only restricted my viewing to paying customers - I didn't want people in my everyday life seeing this profile and my face photos for free, if acquaitances saw me on the site they would have to be payers - so on the site for the same reason -so no problem then. My profile stipulated that I was interested in only meeting couples - why couples you ask? A couple provides NO drama and NO head games- all the administrative stuff stays within the couple, you get the "best" a married guy's wife has to offer - with none of the emotional or financial cost of dealing with her! You'd be surprised how many couples just want a single guy to befriend (or NSA) relationship with .The guys work with you, they're just glad you bangin' their hot wife. And it a trully win win situation! NO DRAMA, NO EXCUSES, NO PRESSURE, NO EXPECTATIONS, Essentially its a crapless niche - If you don't mind some dude watching sometimes.. I digress - I started out by putting out only 6 short emails expressing interest with my profile attached.. Then I waited - folks you've got to give people some time respond - the're real! They are NOT bots - they have real lives, families, etc..BE PATIENT!! In several days I got two positive responses - one couple was immediately interested, another could not meet for approx 6 weeks - it was this last Christmas- families are busy.. The site itself did all the other work for me - my profile was up 24/7 - people were sending flirts and emails.. I did not send out anymore for approx one more week then sent several. The key was to be patient and if a couple you like showed an interest I would give them my cell no. If and when they called - I would treat them like you would ANY NORMAL person - Eventually we would meet, have a couple of drinks, talks,, laught, share a few pleasantries-- then THE SEX BEGINS!!! First 3 months, 3 gorgeous women.. no drama.. two of those couples we'll meet a again.. I would say I've probably spent 2-3 man hours on the site - I have several future appointments set up - with different couples - not to mention the couples they know!! Its been fun and I'm not even signed up any more. Sir Rodney's accessment is correct- I'd also give it an 8.. not to mention its a great site to watch home made porn on!! Good luck to if you choose to try the site.. but most importantly be SAFE! And use COMMON SENSE!!
    • Submitted by
      jwags
      2009-10-15 22:08:35
      I never could believe a REALITY site could going the way it is. The GUY's that have female profiles etc. And yes all the cam bots there. Does anyone really think those type of people are out there in the world!!!Nothing but a scam site surrounded by people from phillipines and they making millions off of people fantasy relationships!!
    • Submitted by
      bill
      2009-09-20 11:40:05
      Peddle your crap elsewhere jesus freak, why can't you people just leave everyone else alone? The only one going to hell are people like you who go around spreading hate.
    • Submitted by
      Joseph l
      2009-09-18 23:53:33
      Don't waste your time on this site,because if you do,you will surely end up in hell in the end! Fornicators and adulterers end up in hell for all eternity!
    • Submitted by
      wondering
      2009-09-09 19:48:23
      Is there anyone on this site other than the millions of overweight middle-aged men that want to fuck 20 something college girls or teenage boys?
    • Submitted by
      james
      2009-08-31 05:16:54
      this site is full of scam, bunch of fake girls, trust me FAKE!!!! it's some f up people trying to talk to you and trying to get you to enter your credit card. don't even waste your time...... 90% of people there are not even real.
    • Submitted by
      Disappointed in 2009
      2009-08-01 11:30:06
      Yep, Disappointed's review is still true, accurate, and correct (who posted on 1-12-2004). Most of the female "standard" (i.e. non-pay) members are bots phishing for email addresses to spam you to death. When you go to AFF, you are hit with a start page that has several video frames of women that are supposedly from your area. This is utter bullshit. As a Gold member, I have personally looked up every single username associated with each of those videos, and all of those usernames are invalid. They are just using your IP address to find out where you are located, picking an old invalid username, and pairing it with a chick's video. Several of the paying female and transexual "Gold" members have pictures posted that are identical to escort pictures found on craiglist and eros. If you are a guy, most of the profile views & emails you get will be from someone who joined yesterday & their account was suspended because of inappropriate activity---i.e. they are scamming.If you read the profiles of hot women who have pictures posted, you will see a repetitive theme. Many of them cut & paste the same phrases such as, "I feel most free when I am driving in my car" and "I'm not looking to change my life, I'm just looking to spice it up". In other words, you are dealing with fakes even if they are silver or gold members. AFF is pretty slick with how they suck you into paying for their service-- as a standard member you really don't have the ability to read a bunch of profiles or look at pictures to figure out that it is a giant phishing/scam site.Also, once you pay for the site & start searching your local area, you'll see that the 20,000 women "in your area" are listed profiles on the site. But if you look at most of their "last logged in/last visited AFF", you'll see that it will say "More than 3 months".So ultimately you are left with your dick in your hand, sending lots of emails, sending winks & hotlisting profiles.In other words, AFF is 95% bullshit. Most of the real women are married, white, and looking for only black cock. If you are a married guy & looking to get some strange, you'll get very used to seeing this phrase-- "IF YOU ARE MARRIED, DO NOT CONTACT ME UNLESS YOUR WIFE TELLS ME IT IS OK".The site upsells you as well. Once you become a Gold member, every time you log in, you are hit with a splash screen asking you to upgrade your account. Such as, purchase a service to allow non-paying members to contact you. Highlight your profile with gold fringes to get more people to notice your profile. Purchase their porn videos-on-demand. The ONLY redeeming quality of AFF Gold membership is being able to access their live member webcams & browsing the member-submitted videos. You'll be really lucky if any of them are within driving distance, but, it is kind of neat to see people broadcasting themselves & putting up real videos. Not worth the $100 bucks a year though(if you pay for gold membership up front).Don't buy into the advertising hype. You are better off spending your money on porn & a fleshlight.
    • Submitted by
      HaveingFunToday
      2009-06-30 00:18:02
      Adult friend finders has problems with their links and don't work, and they wont troubleshoot the problem. Dont use adult friend finders
    • Submitted by
      not telling
      2009-02-06 18:44:28
      its awesome that as a girl i can do a reasonable amount there without paying anything. but whenever i get an email its always the same garbage "hi" "wanna chat/fuck" "hey". really lame those guys will never get laid
    • Submitted by
      bowlan
      2009-01-12 19:05:36
      AFF is only of use if you are a slut looking for a quick fuck.sluts,sluts and more sluts,endless supply of sluts.if you are a guy than you have to work 90% harder.women on AFF are not interested in long tern relationships,they are only after cock.they pick a guy up,they turn off their email receive key and if you watch the same slut for over a few weeks you will see that she has checked her emails every few days or every other week. the sad part is the guy she has picked up probably figures she is the one,to bad dude,you are about to be replaced by yet another guy.i have had women from three states away contact me telling me their husband was not taking care of them sexualy and they wanted strange cock.well thats not my idea of a good time.it the slut is not happy move the fuck out.than look for another guy.banging some poor saps wife while he has no idea is sad to say the least.these sluts should be shot.AFF is not the place to meet women not by a long shot.dont wast your cash on that web site you will only be disapointed with the end results.i know i was.they should list the web site as sluts for hire,or sluts are us,because no self respecting women would ever list here self on that fucked up web site.a good name would be desperate hous wifes looking for cock. its a sad thing how this world has changed.people have completely lost their morels and all self respect.the sluts on that web site are all sluts,show me one that isent and i will marry her.do your own test.pisk a women that interest you and watch here over a few monts time.you will see that she checkes here messages ether weekly or over a few month period.here into will show you the last time she was loged on.married women are easy to spot as they most often dont have a photo.ether way that site sucks bad and is over run with loosers,wife swappers,quears,lesbians and sluts.some of these sluts told me they have been members for a few years.one tells me 800 guys contacted here,when i asked how many she fucked,she said a few hundred.true or not she claimed to be looking for a long tern relationship.well the fact is if she cant find a man out of 800 then she is a slut.
    • Submitted by
      nik
      2008-10-08 04:06:05
      ok im a bisexual woman and aff burned me all together..most of the people on there were full of shit or the talked shit about you which is what happened to me..i met a few people maybe 20..i had sex with maybe 10..if that..next think im know they saying im a net whore....i mean thats the point of the site NSA fun..wtf..its an okay site but i wouldnt waste money on it
    • Submitted by
      Aff is a scam.
      2007-07-08 00:00:00
      I've got two words that are better than Adult Friend Finder: Craigs List. It takes some time but It works eventually.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-06-29 00:00:00
      I have been using AFF for about 8 months now on a regular basis. It takes a lot of time and effort but if you can figure out the site's pages and figure out where women are from it does improve your odds. I try to only chat with women who live fairly close to me. I have been lucky. I have met 10 women on AFF. I have had sex with 9 of them. Of the 10 women 8 were either married or in a long term relationship. It takes time in the chat rooms to get to know them and to get them to agree to meet. But most of the women i have met have been very attractive and love sex. So if you are patient you can be successful.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-05-14 00:00:00
      me and wife are swingers.hated this site .check out these.swappernet.com (pay), (free) -swingerlifestyles.com and finally conectiononline.com(pay) these our top piks for several yrs we have been members of all of them.if u are interested in the swinger lifestyle they are a must!!!!! and should rodney have any extra time lol ..take perv peek they are 5.0
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-04-30 00:00:00
      My wife and I have been gold members for a couple of months. For married couples looking to have sex with male or female partners at the same time (both bi, mmf, ffm) it is a great place and works very well to meet these types of people, we have had 4 encounters to date and 2 more planed soon. Single men and cheaters, no one will have sex with you just because you have a big dick. Works the same on AFF as it does in the bar, you just can$rsquot be slapped over the internet. Potential sexual partners want to talk first, then maybe more later.....
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-03-25 00:00:00
      What I find is that the men don't have a place to entertain or have sex. I'm as horny as you guys but unless it's a meaningful relationship, no man is coming to my home. Plus I don't want to give out my personal information, lol, like phone numbers. I just want to meet and fuck. I might be a rarety, but I'm honest when I describe what I look like, and my pics are really me, but if the guy lies about what he looks like, you're not even getting into the ballpark with me, let alone making a homerun.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-03-09 00:00:00
      I am a member and have only met 2 people in in 5years lots of replies all player son this sight and no hookup
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-02-19 00:00:00
      Women are different from men. Wouldnt it be great if they were all as horny as us? sadly a great majority are not into gettin shagged like us guys are. Il explain why... it all goes back to stoneage times. It takes women 9 months to bear a child, men can father a thousand children in this time. Thats basically what it boils down to. AFF is a total scam and just preys on guys sexual desires, its fairly primitave stuff really. Dont get me wrong women do get horny too but any girl that is in any way attractive justs needs to go out on Saturday night and guys will be queing up to take her home. Any guy that signs up to AFF is either very naive, gullable or both!
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-02-19 00:00:00
      Women are different from men. Wouldnt it be great if they were all as horny as us? sadly a great majority are not into gettin shagged like us guys are. Il explain why... it all goes back to stoneage times. It takes women 9 months to bear a child, men can father a thousand children in this time. Thats basically what it boils down to. AFF is a total scam and just preys on guys sexual desires, its fairly primitave stuff really. Dont get me wrong women do get horny too but any girl that is in any way attractive justs needs to go out on Saturday night and guys will be queing up to take her home. Any guy that signs up to AFF is either very naive, gullable or both!
    • Submitted by
      Bob
      2007-01-28 00:00:00
      I travel a lot for work, and after using AFF for a coouple years, have met some real cool and fun folks. Yeah, I'm good looking. Yeah, I got a big cock. but what the hell? There are nice and sexy people there willing to meet, make friends, and have fun.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-01-28 00:00:00
      I have been a member of AFF for about 5 years. With my girlfriens or with myself. The results were heaven and earth. With my girlfriend, I got hooked up to everywhere, whereas as single male, I got marginal results(although I know few of the tricks get better results). It is too much work. I had more sexual action through other friend finder sites than AFF. Once, I did a test of sorts. I randomly chose 100 female profile and sent copy and paste message to them. The results were that about 50% reply that was from "bots" who is trying to get you to other site. And the rate of bots were bigger among the standard member since it is free. I got one reply and others were non reply!! If standar member has her profile removed then that means that they were bots. They get complain from member and AFF removes. But it seems like for every profile removed, there are two popping up. Overall, to most of the men, it is waste of money. You will get more action if you go to the singles bar or church. Yes, I also suspect that many profiles are created by AFF.
    • Submitted by
      Ripped Off
      2007-01-28 00:00:00
      AFF sucks we joined as gold members and within days of joingin our account was suspended and we had done nothing wrong. We have called and left messages as well emailed and left messages with no return emails or calls. Meaning they took our money and have cut our account off. One good thing is we did turn the auto renewal off after setting up account otherwise we would not even be able to adjust that the way they have us locked out of our account. Save your Moneuy trust me on this one.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2007-01-09 00:00:00
      Listen up Everybody!! Adult Friend Finder is a SCAM! Sure they have a few real profiles, their female to male ratio is somewhere around 10/90. Sorry to break the news, but AFF is fraud. Do yourself a favor and save your money.
    • Submitted by
      Flowride
      2006-12-11 00:00:00
      I'm a Silver member now, although I won't be renewing. I have had some fun with AFF, mainly with the webcam. It has brought out the exhibitionist in me. Hooking up with actual women is another story. I have had one encounter, which wasn't bad but wasn't that hot. She was overweight and talked my ear off until I started touching her. Then we kissed quite deeply for a while, went to the parking lot where she was parked and she sucked me (not long enough to cum). I use AFF mainly because of boredom in a small town. Pretty sad but true. I'll be moving back to the city and real women soon. Can't wait to just go out and buy a lady some drinks.
    • Submitted by
      Couldatoljaso
      2006-09-26 00:00:00
      As a warning to the wise, I am a fraud investigator and worked a case where a con man went trolling for women he could rip off on this site. Worked for him.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-09-18 00:00:00
      Im glad to see some adult personals reviewed. I have tried every thing but adult personals it seems and after seeing AFF on every major adult site I am finally giving in and joining.
    • Submitted by
      Father In Charge
      2006-08-25 00:00:00
      aff is truly dishonest. what a scam but i deserve it to think it was the real thing. the part i do not understand is all the womens profiles sound so real. does aff hire hundreds of women to write the profiles??? even the very few emails i have received sound so real a couple live close to my town and even mention places i know. why do so many women have these profiles but never intend to really meet you. oh well so goes life
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-08-21 00:00:00
      Well I'm a 29 year old man. I'm in good shape as I am an Army vet. Since I hate bars and am really shy I think AFF is going to work wonders for me. In fifteen days so far I've recieved 130+ hits and have recieved About 15 or so e-mails. Most of the e-mails were "removed" for reasons uknown to me. But I am having communications with about three or four woman at this time. While Im shy with woman I am still a confident individual and it shows on profile. I think this is better than bread and water so I plan on continueing my membership. Yes ther are a lot of fake profiles. You do have to do a bit work to make contacts and beware of scam artists. But if your smart and goodlooking like me I'd say the future is bright!
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-08-10 00:00:00
      My ex-girlfriend was a member way back before we were dating. She was pretty hot and could definately hook up with anyone she wanted to meet at a club, but she used AFF to meet sucker guys who would actually fly her places and take her on expensive trips. Whenever she wanted to visit someplace, she'd just modify her profile saying so and she'd get flooded with emails. We still keep in touch and she mentioned that I should try AFF, so I gave it a shot. Started the "free" stuff and would get maybe a dozen winks/week but couldn't contact the people without paying, so I paid. Then I would try to contact the people who winked and they'd have absolutely no idea who I was! All the hot women profiles I emailed were unsuccessful. I don't consider myself a hot looking guy, but my past girlfriends had so I guess I must be alright. I'm inclined to think that much of the women's profiles up there are just to bait us, or they're women with a specific intent on their mind where the general population just has no chance at.
    • Submitted by
      HardRod
      2006-07-25 00:00:00
      Well let me say that the site is real, with real members hooking-up. I've met about 6 women and banged them all, half were cute, the other half I took for the team. Just nothing I'd be seen with in broad daylight. Although scoring feels like a stroke of luck, and you have to invest alot of time. Time that you could use doing someting else far more productive. Be preapared, its slow, crashes alot, and the messenger often doesnt work which is screened and monitored. So I say, get some sunlight, fresh air, and forget AFF.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-07-25 00:00:00
      Thank you all so much. I almost signed up and you saved me $29.00. Now i can just go to a bar and take my chances there with my 29$. Thank you everyone so much.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-07-09 00:00:00
      Anyone tried Senior Friend Finder? Same thing?
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-07-07 00:00:00
      I shelled for a three month highlighted gold subscription. I placed a photo of a tanned, svelte and handsome guy, (myself lol). I wrote a lengthy honest bio about being a simple, kind, respectful and lonely fellow. Looks weren't paramount to me, inner beauty was. I stacked the odds in my favour and did I succeed? Lets see...my profile averaged 1 hit per week, not 1 reply to all my emails, despite paying for standard members to contact me, not even 1 addition to a girl's hotlist! The some total of all my efforts was 1 wink. Now, my ex joined too, with one photo and 2 measly lines. The result? Several hundred emails from slobbering men! AFF is nothing more than a sausage-fest, worth neither the time nor money. When it comes to sex the truth is that women have far greater power than men. You or I can go to a singles bar and just might get lucky. Women can score every time if they really want. So forget AFF, but hark, there is a way to considerably better your chances in real life. I chanced upon a site called 'Speed Seduction' and this fellow is an absolute master in the art of bagging women! P.S. Sir Rodders, I am not affiliated, I merely empathise with my fellow brethren to whom nature has dealt the raw end of the stick when it comes to sex.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-04-17 00:00:00
      I've had some successes with both AFF and ALT, but with good, comes bad as well. Several of the girls I met were complete mental cases, teasers instead of pleasers, and basically a waste of my time. On the other hand, I did meet a couple of girls who I had some great sex with, even if it was a one night thing. Many of the profiles are fake, even the ones that look realistic. Some of the profiles belong to whores looking to make a buck. Is it worth the money? Well, you do get to see a lot of nude pictures and webcam viewings, some of which are pretty hot. As for meeting people, it can happen but you really got to work to find someone who is real, and who will actually respond to you.
    • Submitted by
      Scott
      2006-04-17 00:00:00
      I am a writer from London. I've got an idea for a book! See, I fell into the trap of AFF. All these hot girls sent me to there sight and told me how great they thought I was and how they wanted to meet me. Then I poured my heart and soul out to them in countless emails. Please, I want to put together a book of all your emails, fellow victims to this shitty site! All your heart and soul emails. The ones you sent to those girls when you believed in them. Your names would remain annonymous. If I got it published, I make it my solemn PROMISE to refund you each the money that you spent to be a member on Adult Friend Finder. That's a real PROMISE too (not just a capitalized one)... Hopefully in the end we'll end up with a very interesting and maybe even slightly humorous (My email is going on page 1!)... And in the end we can get one step closer to taking down the pigs and making the internet a safe place once again...
    • Submitted by
      2chunks
      2006-03-30 00:00:00
      My GF and I bought a gold account on AFF a few months back... We met up with one of the girls we met on there; she had just turned 18 but confessed she had had a profile on AFF since she was 15. When we asked her how many people she had hooked up with she told us over 25. We decided against taking her home with us, she was HUGE (not chunky, not chubby, but HUGE). A VERY large percentage of the profiles on AFF are inactive. Overall if you have 40 bucks to spare a month and you are looking for an ultra slut, or a WHALE of a good time AFF will do the trick. We weren't too impressed. *** One last thing, the site is SLOW, it takes about 30 seconds to load each page... its very annoying.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-03-28 00:00:00
      Let me tell you Im no "Brad Pitt" but i am an attractive guy in shape. All these sites are bull shit the responses to my emails were way too fake. For Example: I would ask for their email or screen name to talk with them better and I would get..."Im very interested, hope to hear more from you" Its all fake but what I dont understand from all these sites is WHY? A site that didnt have fake profiles would work much better not to mention making people happy
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-03-02 00:00:00
      AFF is slow as turtle (sometime it takes more than a day to receive E-mail) and their service is not realiable and often goes down. for example, thier messenger service and broadcasting WebCam is often goes down. (I think the site is down now...) Things bothering me so bad is they treat member as if living in Communist Country where everything is monitored and screened. (Yes, profile, blog, group discussion, I even think personal E-mail is somehow monitored...) I understand there is way many men than women and women there is basically spoiled, however while I was paid member for two month, I banged four real women one on one, (of course not super model type, but at least clean and free), one lesbian couple, attended two group sex session and one S&M party. (And by some reason, I received a bunch of invitation from Gay men although I indicated that I am only interested in women....) Yes, there is real people.. Those who are exhibitionist may enjoy showing off his/her private part to public may enjoy the site for free WebCam broadcasting. The reason why I quit (from paid member) was.... I decided to stop supporting those spoiled women who'd never got attention from guys in real world, but got a lot of cheers from a lot of lonely guys. (I think it's sad..)
    • Submitted by
      Sophie
      2006-02-26 00:00:00
      I love AFF... I've been only a standard member for a couple years and I have met loads of great men and women from the site. I know a lot of women on there are fake but once you learn what a fake ad looks like, it's easy to spot them.
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      Anonymous
      2006-02-26 00:00:00
      Thanks to all contributors. I always suspected this site was sheer bullshit. All it takes is a little common sense (women have no need for the Internet to hook up for casual sex) and a sprinkling of statistics (how many dozens of guys for every "legitimate" female ad will there be). Still, I'm occasionally tempted. However, I think we ought to thank AFF for all the free porn.
    • Submitted by
      James
      2006-02-23 00:00:00
      I've been a gold member for a few months. No big on the money poorly spent.I live and learn. I email regularly and have received only 3 replies who were real women. The others either do not reply or they send you to a pay site and want credit card info. Just in case you do not know DO NOT GIVE YOUR CREDIT CARD NUMBER FOR VERIFICATION PURPOSES. I have been on one date and we had a good time but nothing more than that. I'm 51 in great shape and good looking.I also kept a record of my inquiries and have sent 248 emails. One date. You do the math. AFF just does not live up to its promotions. There is other BS to deal with also. Slow loading, old profiles 1-2 yrs out of date. 10 men for each woman. Most ads are fantasies. If your honest you dont need this.
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      Anonymous
      2006-02-20 00:00:00
      Was also a silver member for a couple of months. I received a few winks here and there and was added to a couple of hotlists, but no meetings ever took place. Plenty of scammers and false profiles. It's not worth the cash. I would be interested in recommendations of other sites. I've tried Amateurmatch.com which is even worse. Sexsearch.com is a joke, out of date, false and with slow servers. Craigslist isn't bad either or Lavalife - but I'm looking for a little fun before I get caught up in a relationship or dull marriage again. Cheers
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      Scotty2Hottie
      2006-02-20 00:00:00
      Man, this site is just straight up fat women hiding behind shadowy pics and escorts. The f'ing chat room on this site is BUSTED. What a waste of a dime. If I wanted to pay for sex I don't need to give $25 dollars to this site to help me find a hooker. If I wanted to pick up a fat old girl I don't need the internet to help me with that eather. Go check out erocity on sir rodney because there they got pornos you can watch all the time, hot girls in cam that do EVERYHTHING, I mean shove stuff in the no no spots and you can talk to them. Not only that but because the women there are down for fucking, you can pick and choose who you want to meet up with. Not just some nasty ho just showing you her eyes or a up close and perwsonal nip shot- they got girls that show you the whole package so you can check the tonage before you make the drive. I've never met anyone from AFF, just cause they were busted or they wanted me to pay them, so maybe that's not the sites fault, but busted women compared to meeting real women who want to fuck that you aren't afraid to be seen with in public is a big difference. Not only that, but any woment you meet on eroticy is gonna be down with porn, you know you watch it too. IT's the home of the freaks and I want to get my freak on. AFF is boring and the chat rooms suck, nothing to do, unless you like old fat women with names like "shadowcat". Ha! Don't waste your pennies- put them to use!
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-02-14 00:00:00
      can it be used for meeting "professionals"?
    • Submitted by
      Loco Lance
      2006-02-14 00:00:00
      Eros.com is the way to go if you're lookin to pay for pussy, imho. I travel for work and have used them to find call girls in many cities. It's free and it's good.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-02-05 00:00:00
      I joined first as a standard member and then upped it to silver. Probably going to end it soon since so many profiles are just frauds or unattractive to me.
    • Submitted by
      Jerry
      2006-01-23 00:00:00
      I went on there. Fucked a fat bitch, easy just like a bar, she said she wanted to be together. I choked her and bailed. Overall, just like in life, if you are good looking and ambitious, you will come out ahead on the deal. If not, nature is against you reproducing so just wack yourself to sleep.
    • Submitted by
      Kjelstad
      2006-01-21 00:00:00
      I have used AFF before. This was a couple years ago, but it worked them. As far as this comment: "Contructive feedback is what we need here , is erocity or some other site better, or are we all left to study and anaylize each email or profile in an effort to confirm if it is real or not. " Erocity is a total scam. 3 or 4 times a week I get an email from them saying someone is intested in me. My profile is void of anything other than my location. The profiles of the people wring me have some participation score (I forget what its called, it measures how often you use the site) that shows they are using the service 24 hours a day. I'll get the same people emailing me over and over and some are from other parts of the country. All scam. "I found there were at least 30 straight guys to every women" if you look at the break down by state that is true in washington state. 1/3 of the male members are from WA. I don't get that. I don't think the fakes are from AFF but instead are from low lifes trying to cash in somehow. You will find that anywhere. But I did bang a few on AFF so they are not all bad.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-01-15 00:00:00
      AFF is a waste of money for several reasons: - Email between members can take 2 days to reach the recipient. - No means of filtering out inactive members from searches. Sure, they a million member profiles in your area. But they hide the fact that only a hundred are complete and active. - Unless you pay a premium, you can't use basic features for your own profile or for searches.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2006-01-02 00:00:00
      The fakes are very obvious, then you have the local ho's who want money. What real girl in there right mind is going to put a naked pic up with showing her face for all the world too see. And do really want to be with a chick that some of the other guys say have been with? Sloppy 1000s:)
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-12-29 00:00:00
      Hey Thank you guys ... I appreciate all the guys that are honest on their opinions here. I think I will pass on this site for now as in the search all i see is bots. I have a advice to all the sites that are trying to make buck with the help of bots... Your buck stops right there ...
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-12-28 00:00:00
      AFF got a lot of spam/fake or bot profiles, I was a member for 2months, you cant really get laid with beautiful women just by paying 20 bucks a month. Not ot be negative, but ultimately, attraction doesnt work as easy as you might want it to be. Some guy mention that if you are not good at clubs/bars, then it will be the same here, is true. Is all about personality, and some looks.
    • Submitted by
      Memphis
      2005-12-16 00:00:00
      I read all of the reviews here, and decided to post one of my own. First, to the pessimists, get over it...anything in life has challenges, and the Adult Friend FInder site is no different. For me, a slightly above average looking male, it has been worth it. I have literally gotten free sex from the place, as I didn't become a paying member for a few months. Imagine how much you spend on a night out at a bar, versus twenty something a month for this service. But, you have to be willing to try. It's the same women guys, just a different medium. If you weren't doing so well in the real world, guess what...it's not them, it's you. No matter how you percieve these women (sluts, whatever...) they still have standards. It' is so true that attitude is everything...I started out hangin out in the regional chatroom as a free member, struck up a conversation, parlayed that into a phone call, and the same night she was knocking on my door. Yes, there's fakes, but you get savvy at picking them out after a while, and that's a problem on all dating sites. For what it offers, Adult Friend Finder is worth it.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-12-08 00:00:00
      Saw a group of AFF members who invaded a club I frequent at for their xmas party..less then average looking people who stood around kissing each other and getting in the way. one guy kept standing 6 inches from my dates chair with his crotch almost in his face(my date my a great looking guy as opposed to the guys with name tags on)the girls were kissing more of the girls than the guys... looked totally trashy and sick.. hope they never come back.. those wre some ugly people
    • Submitted by
      PK Master
      2005-11-25 00:00:00
      I have been a member for 3 mos already and Ive been out with 12 chicks and banged 8. I got 5 of em in my stable now which is exactly what my plan was. Yeah they're a gang of fake hoes on the site but its just like fishing. You gotta have some skills and be patient at the same time. Get them fishing channel thoughts out your head (when the guy pulls out back to back to back etc.. fish out the water). It most definately helps if you are a good looking dude. A guy gots to be kinda dreaming if he thinks its gonna be THAT easy to get laid with out paying hooker prices. Anyways Im outta here.
    • Submitted by
      AFF is BULLSHIT
      2005-11-25 00:00:00
      Most of the hot chicas are fake. Easy to find out which too. Just put BOT! in the heading and then ROTFLMFAO in the body of the message. You'll see that NO message sent is recorded
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-11-25 00:00:00
      Ever tried doing a search in Muslim countries such as Iran or Afghanistan, still comes up with lots of members. Here in Thailand, the site is blocked by the government for being obscene yet they claim tens of thousands of members. Surely, not all of these members have proxy servers like me. I only know of a handful of computer guys here who even know what they are. Finally, I am a member of Match.Com and I met a nice Muslim girl there. I hooked up with her in Bangkok and she was a nice, well brought up and traditional girl looking for a good solid relationship before she lost her virginity. Give her respect but not what I was looking for so I didn't see her after that. Turns out her profile was in AFF which was surprising. When I called her up she said she didn't have a clue about the profile. She could be lying because I'm an ugly guy with a small dick, but then again...
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-11-21 00:00:00
      I have only tried this for the free period and must say looks pretty suspisious to me. Maybe I'm a pesimest but the emails the site itself sends me all look "to good to be true" with very high quality backing and lighting on pro looking women. But, for the sake of an inexpierenced online dater, there must be someone out there that has a better alternative....suggest a different site....point me in the right direction. All I have heard is mostly negative comments about this site....but no, Hey, try this site out instead It's much better. Contructive feedback is what we need here , is erocity or some other site better, or are we all left to study and anaylize each email or profile in an effort to confirm if it is real or not. How about some "good" feedback.
    • Submitted by
      BigT
      2005-11-21 00:00:00
      I tried out AFF and here's my blog. First, it's total BS that you have to pay ANOTHER $20 or whatever to let -standard- members contact you ie: women. Second, I would guess that at least 25% of the -women- on AFF are SPAMMERS looking to collect emails from horney dudes. I did wind up meeting some guys wife and fucking her -with the husband watching no less- but she was only about a -7- and she was pretty old with an average body. I don't think it was wierd or anything as some people have this fetish to watch - but the guy insisted I cum in her and he wound up licking my jizz out of her which was a little sick. Aside from that, you don't even want to see the trolls I turned down. In my quest for booty, I canvassed the hell out of the site to the point where I got a system message like -you sure do email a lot of people- and they suspended the account until I emailed support. I must have emailed 300 women and wound up getting like 3 replies from the worst of the bunch. In summary, there are a ton of local women - BUT - they are all looking to -date- and see your damn photo when they don't even have the balls to put theirs up. Many of them claim to be waiting for -Mr. Right- who is probably the one guy that will turn them down. Some of them flat out say you have to be real hot or real tall or real big - which is fine - but it seems they get so many emails from average-joes that even the hot guys get overlooked. There are also a few gold-digging whores up there that want some bling in exchange for that ass. Some tips I learned that may help: Be sure to leave the window open logged into the AFF as it shows you as being -on- which gives you a good chance of catching someone local. I would also say that if you do email someone - try to mention something she said in her profile and give her your number in case you catch her in fuck-mode. Lastly, eveyone knows your up there looking to fuck - so sending a picture of your dick or telling her how horney you are is probably a waste. Overall - it's slightly better than hanging out at the local bar - :)
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-11-14 00:00:00
      I just want to ad something to this so called website. It is truly impossible to meet someone if your a guy seeking a girl. There must be 1000 guys for every one girl. Yes it starts off with emails, then maybe, possibly she'll respond back t you. But why should she? She probably has so many damn emails from other vultures out there thats trying to fuck the same girl your looking at. Second. I am Asian Americian and i find that "most females" out on AFF only look for that one type of guy. Yes, its a dog eat dog world out there. Only the bold and the beautiful survive. But for an average Joe out there trying to get some, he'll have a close to zero chance. Just my 2 Cents
    • Submitted by
      Geo
      2005-11-11 00:00:00
      Thanks everybody, I "almost" signed up. Any good alternatives out there?
    • Submitted by
      SHOOTER
      2005-11-09 00:00:00
      The site is BS, save your money, get off your butt, go out and meet some real people.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-11-04 00:00:00
      I met a girl on AFF. Things progressed, and we were e-mailing back and forth with our personal e-mail accounts. In my personal inbox, all of her email had "GMT" on the time and date, as in"Date: Mon, 29 Aug 2005 13:43:48 GMT." Of all the other recieved e-mails in my inbox, none of them had "GMT" on it. At this point, I'm not in contact with her, but I'm curious, did she really live in the UK and not in my city? Sir Rodney's Comment: I think GMT is a standard or default ISPs I notice ISPs use.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-11-02 00:00:00
      Um....Im speachless. I wanted to bang someone on a business trip I went on....Logged on to AFF and sent out a few emails. Ended up meeting a really nice couple. Banged this guys wife while he sat and watched a porno and got drunk. Pretty strange but better than sitting in my hotel room.
    • Submitted by
      OG
      2005-10-27 00:00:00
      I've been a member a couple of months now and am really irritated to have paid a yearly membership. The only good thing about this site is when you're lucky enough to find a girl showing off on her webcam. Anyway, i contacted a girl who replied and gave me her email address, which i duly added to yahoo msn. Result: her profile got deleted. A few days later, i contacted another girl who turned out to have the same email address but a totally different photo. received a response (exactly the same except -"i thought i'd contactwed you before", same again, she gives me her email address, her profile gets deleted and i got an email from her saying she would rather chat on AFF rather than yahoo. Why??? So far still no chatting, but contacted a different looking 'girl' who turns out to be the same, i received the same message again. Fed up with it i complained to AFF about their fake profiles and confronted her when i finally saw her online on yahoo. Result, no response. Have threatened AFF to complain to trading standards. Will let you know how it goes on and any help as to who i need to contact would be welcome. Any ideas? Cheers.
    • Submitted by
      Michael
      2005-10-11 00:00:00
      As far as AFF goes, true for the majority it is a rip-off. For a guy who is moderate looking, intelligent, can communicate well, it's a bonanza. I've done alright over the years with AFF personally, with an average of 6 "new" hookups a year, some short-term one-nighters (trial fucks) and others which were long term regulars with couples and women. However one problem with AFF is the number of fake ads - some are very possibly generated by AFF itself to pad the membership numbers and to provide "hope" for the desparate. Some of them actually will communicate by email - and they do want your regular emails rather quickly. After seeing a few of them, you notice word patterns and styles of writing which indicate a template or a single author. But despite all of this, there are still a lot of "real" people on AFF to find. The biggest complaint I hear from couples and women---the guys are idiots -- with emails that start "Wanna fuck?" or "I've got the best cock!". Trust me, it never works it nearly always turns them off, and if it did, I wouldn't want to be with her anyway! What works for me: I simply talk to them, read the profile and respond to the person as a person. And be honest, too many guys lie about their attributes.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-10-06 00:00:00
      This site along with all other singles sites purely promote adultrous behavior and if any of the people who posted an ad on such a site were truly honest with themselves; they would come to realize that they are trying to fulfill some void in their lifes. Morality and ethics have gone down the drain and small remnnants of respect that should be given to relationships have almost disappeared. It is sad when all we have become is a bunch of horny people who will do anything to look out to satisfy ourselves... we don't care who we hurt in the process; be it our partners or ourselves. I am so disgusted with how wickedly weak we have become as humans. In all honesty, the crudeness of so many people in regards to sex has diminished the act itself. Sir Rodney's Comment: It sounds like all the fun has gone out of life for you, hon Here you are, looking at one of the truly great FREE consumer resources on the web, feeling very angry that people are so into the very thing that you, as a human, NEED. You have to give (cough * put out * cough) to receive a man's love and respect. Let it in, baby.
    • Submitted by
      David from Seattle
      2005-10-06 00:00:00
      I keep hearing (mostly from pages like this) that it's a scam but I've personally known two of my lady friends who went on there just to hook up, and they did so successfully with a good number of guys each. That's my target audience so I'm out to get quietly desperate women like them. What I plan to do is exagerate my height and weight and pray for pity sex. I have the good fortune of having super hot pictures of myself from 6 years ago when I didn't have kids and wasn't fat... hell, I can suck it in during the interview process and I'm charming enough. My thought is "would I pay $40 for the CHANCE to F--- any random woman?" the answer is yes. I plan to join, but I will be cautious of the "professionals" in the mix.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-10-05 00:00:00
      It's every mans dream when you first come across the site, though from my recent experience I would have to say it's a fraud. Doesn't matter how you word a letter, and I have tried many, there is seldom a response. Furthermore, it's like a house of cards. People submit one profile image and some text, and it stays like that forever. The queen of hearts comes to mind: she also only has one profile and nothing much to say. Others that I met put up images from years ago. Of course some show body and no face, and its unadulterated bullshit.
    • Submitted by
      John
      2005-09-05 00:00:00
      I have a question for anybody who is or has been member of AFF. What does appear in the credit card statement next to the charge?
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-09-05 00:00:00
      SLOOOOOWWWWW... the site is really slow. Sometimes my account will have disappeared. Other times my password won't work. There are a ton of fake profiles. Even so, I have met a few nice people. What I don't like is knowing the lowliness to which the site will go to get people to sign up. Scandalous!
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      Happily Humping Again
      2005-09-05 00:00:00
      How about a positive comment for a change? I'm a married guy with a wife that turned frigid after she got the last baby out of me. After years of neglecting myself, I joined AFF as a silver member. In only a few days I found a nice single Mom, only a few miles from my house, about my same age, who is perfectly happy to meet me purely for sex now and then. She needs it and so do I. Sure the site has drawbacks, like professionals using hot pictures to lure you in. But all you have to do is ignore those and look for the "snapshot" pictures instead. And there are quite a few profiles where couples are looking for married men because they KNOW they will be discreet. Sir Rodney's Comment: You give hope to horny married men everywhere!
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-08-04 00:00:00
      If the site is fraudulent it should be put under federal investigation and class-action lawsuits
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-07-05 00:00:00
      Yeah, there's alot of fake ads on EVERY adult hookup site. I've actually fucked a few women through AFF though so there are real, straight females there. It probably helps that I have a huge cock, just put a picture up and it took about 2 weeks before I was screwing an attractive girl. Just don't waste time on ads that are obviously fake (pictures too well lit/perfect, profiles that are generated from pools of profile-speak you'll get the hang of it). If you're not attractive or don't have something going for you, don't expect to get laid by some hot chick - just like in the real world. I'm not going to continue my membership though, this stuff is just bad for your soul (figuratively speaking).
    • Submitted by
      AnonymousHack
      2005-06-22 00:00:00
      This site is saturated with fake profiles. In their ads that appear all over the internet, the handles and/or locations never match the photo. A picture of a woman will have a handle of CuteJerseyGirl27 while her location will magically be closest to your city. Or a white woman will have the handle of AsianLady25. Clearly a deceptive website that probably makes most of its money from its fishing.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-06-15 00:00:00
      When I read girls profiles from South and Central America,(for example) I can't believe they actually wrote it!! The grammer, choice of words, ect. sounds more like some guy from the US who's getting paid to just sit and generate fake garbage, attached to a randomly selected amature photo. The more I browse, the more disappointed I get with this rip-off site. There should a law against this kind of disception.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-06-11 00:00:00
      I have looked at many profiles of Filipinas who call themselves something like "cum hungry slut-fucks" I have lived in the Philippines and I can tell you that not even a low-life street hore would address herself like this. THIS SITE HAS TO BE FABRICATED BULLSHIT!!!- No doubt!!
    • Submitted by
      Stian
      2005-06-11 00:00:00
      Hehe. It is all fake. Why the hell would all the Norwegian profiles in there be in ENGLISH??? That is just stupid. There should actually be ONE profile in there in Norwegian. And why is NONE of the nicks even resemble typical Norwegian nicks. I am serious. There is NONE. PS: Just saw a profile with a picture I KNOW is fake. (Seen it before, in other contexsts). But they have to make money on this bullshit site. Damn there is a lot of suckers in the world.
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-03-29 00:00:00
      As a single male, AFF sure does not provide. I hear from females that they get millions of emails, but as a male, the game of odds are against you on this AFF Network. I sure am looking for a site that favour males in the odds :-)
    • Submitted by
      Anonymous
      2005-02-18 00:00:00
      This site is a 'DUDE FEST" If you are a striaght male, it's like grand central station. The biggest problem with this site is that the non-paying 'standard members' clog up this site. I will let my membership run out on this one. They will nickle and dime you to death on this site by the way.
    • Submitted by
      Jenny
      2005-02-18 00:00:00
      Everybody is fake on this site. Save your money for something else. Adult Friend Finder is a waste of time and money.
    • Submitted by
      Rico
      2005-02-18 00:00:00
      I was AFF member at different periods and looking for different stuff for over eight years. As single guy looking for women I was able to meet very few and never get to the last stage because they weren't attractive or looking for a long term relationship even if the ad said something different. As married guy was a big failure since the few girls looking for casual sex were only porn sites pretending to be someone else. And as a couple looking for couples or singles, we found that most couples are looking for bi encounters only. So AFF was a general disapointment if you are straight and looking for real casual encounters.
    • Submitted by
      HavingFunNow2004
      2004-07-27 00:00:00
      I spent $40 to join as a silver member with option of letting standard members contact me. All I can say is the sucker lamp went on brightly. I found there were at least 30 straight guys to every women. I say at least because the few women that did response were looking for $275/hour for "full service." The other contact was a "she-male." In short, this site is a rip off for straight guys looking to meet straight women. Save your money!
    • Submitted by
      Easy1015
      2004-07-13 00:00:00
      AFF does have A LOT of members. There's also a lot to do on the site. There are a lot of men, though, so I really had to pay attention to my emails. I've been a member of this site for a little over a year now & I can say that if I ever want to have plans for the weekend or any weeknight for that matter, all I have to do is log onto my account and enter a chat room :)
    • Submitted by
      Kaitlyn
      2004-05-18 00:00:00
      What a waste of time. It's impossible to learn how to move around the site and your chances of eer meeting anyone who even remotely resembles who they say they are is slim to none. In short - what a joke! -Kaitlyn
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      Disappointed
      2004-01-12 00:00:00
      You'll be lucky if you ever meet anyone that is the person that placed the ad. Most of the ads are phony and athe majority are tied to "Professional" services. On 3 instances, I met people that demanded money just to be with them, no sexual contact. This site should close.

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